tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post7256067354371464093..comments2023-09-19T14:06:31.000+01:00Comments on Toxic Drums: Jimmy Savile and the Problem of AbuseToxic Drumshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01422159950237560120noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-78947776994726404442012-10-28T01:14:12.581+00:002012-10-28T01:14:12.581+00:00Like I said, stop trying to be a fucking shrink, y...Like I said, stop trying to be a fucking shrink, you suck at it. Never said I was a nice dad all the time, just said that I didn't beat my kids. So I was beat a lot, got the fuck over it a long time ago, this planet is always beating us up, center on today's beatings, fuck past beatings. BBChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15323188240580782454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-17167090917260025142012-10-25T14:50:12.607+01:002012-10-25T14:50:12.607+01:00I guess you and I are on different sides. It was ...I guess you and I are on different sides. It was you who said "I was beat a lot as a kid, but what the hell has that got to do with anything? Didn't beat my kids." You are clearly pandering to your ego and making yourself out to be the "nice Dad" but instead of dealing with your pain you are beating up on me.Toxic Drumshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01422159950237560120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-3268045449958464222012-10-25T02:47:44.939+01:002012-10-25T02:47:44.939+01:00You sound very hurt and very angry.
No, you do wh...<i>You sound very hurt and very angry.</i><br /><br />No, you do when you keep carrying on about abuse, stop trying to be a fucking shrink, you suck at it.BBChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15323188240580782454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-70359548796098862012-10-24T14:34:11.012+01:002012-10-24T14:34:11.012+01:00You sound very hurt and very angry.You sound very hurt and very angry.Toxic Drumshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01422159950237560120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-90752554636213076392012-10-24T03:03:08.058+01:002012-10-24T03:03:08.058+01:00No one gives a fuck if you think you was abused as...No one gives a fuck if you think you was abused as a kid. You're an adult now, get with the fucking program. BBChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15323188240580782454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-89940809602983277482012-10-24T03:00:16.804+01:002012-10-24T03:00:16.804+01:00I think you think to fucking much about abuse and ...I think you think to fucking much about abuse and should just enjoy life the best you can. BBChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15323188240580782454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-72279745381202955852012-10-23T04:42:15.522+01:002012-10-23T04:42:15.522+01:00I guess that is like suggesting smoking is not bad...I guess that is like suggesting smoking is not bad for you because you know someone who lived to be 94 who smoked. And it seems to me you are close to suggesting that beating kids is acceptable because it "never did you any harm". If you chose not to beat your kids it suggests you didn't want to perpetrate the harm. I think some people don't get that opportunity. And please don't think I am 'defending' any abuser - It is more a case of too many kettles calling the pots black.Toxic Drumshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01422159950237560120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-57786270653475969382012-10-23T04:32:08.007+01:002012-10-23T04:32:08.007+01:00Ah you imposter. In short I would agree with you....Ah you imposter. In short I would agree with you. It almost sounds from your response that we are in disagreement. Perhaps I didn't explain well enough. It is precisely the people who - perhaps unfortunately - do not oppose the things they 'know' to be wrong who consequently act out the abuse on others. I have no idea whether we have any 'choice' in the matter but that has nothing to do with the need to stop people who are abusing from continuing. I think my main point, that I will try to write about in another post, is that "DAMAGE" occurs and any "thing" that is damaged is, by definition, not working correctly. We live in an abusive culture and until we stop it at the source we will continue to have the likes of Esther Rantzen being amazed that nobody did anything about it at the time. It seems that the children who were abused were already 'abused' by the culture and so couldn't tell anyone. The few who did were "not believed". That is so abusive in itself.Toxic Drumshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01422159950237560120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-53145606802898486192012-10-23T02:35:29.437+01:002012-10-23T02:35:29.437+01:00I was beat a lot as a kid, but what the hell has t...I was beat a lot as a kid, but what the hell has that got to do with anything? Didn't beat my kids. BBChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15323188240580782454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-281301013528109838.post-32992696503531164172012-10-23T00:57:16.126+01:002012-10-23T00:57:16.126+01:00Abuse occurs from people who are sick. It is a sic...Abuse occurs from people who are sick. It is a sickness. Not one that can be easily forgiven by the victims but a sickness none the less.<br /><br />The trick is, if you are abused as a child, to 'break the cycle'.<br /><br />The worst abusers are those who claim they were abused therefore went on to abuse.<br /><br />They are the biggest scum.<br /><br />Yes, a victim is forever aware of their victimhood and yes, it may make them struggle throughout their life in so many many ways but....<br /><br />...to abuse as a former victim is unforgiveable.<br /><br />Personally I would shoot the bastards.The Imposterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09775645591659322631noreply@blogger.com